Follow Your Heart, A Guide to Being Happy!

Go ahead, follow your heart and dare to be happy!

There are many different ways to follow your heart to your happiness and all the other wonderful things you intend to have in your life.  The quickest way is being free to express the magnificent spirit of you without concern of the opinion or judgment of others.

Stop thinking, how do I just stop everything else to follow my heart, what about my responsibilities or obligations to my job, my family and others?

Relax for just a moment and give your head a rest, the "way it will all happen is not your job to figure out". That job belongs to the Higher Universal Mind, also referred to as God, who can divinely orchestrate all the details to deliver your happiness and all else you desire.

Your job is to feel it all out by following your heart. In order to follow your heart you must be present with your emotions to even realize what makes you happy to begin with. You can get clear on what makes you smile by flipping through the universal catalogue of your life’s experiences. You can check out the past to recall the fond memories that brought you joy and you can also spend your days being present and observing to see what life has to offer that you may have not yet experienced.

Just observe throughout your day, as you encounter people, places and or things and you will notice some of them instantly produce a wide grin across your face and others will result in just the opposite.

Pay particular attention to that of which makes you smile. You simply add those things to your list of heart’s desires. You do not have to compile your list all at once, you can add to it each and every day. All you need do is sit down and write out, paint, draw, compose or just speak the description of whatever it is you really chose to have.

Logic has no place here; the rational mind does not get to interfere with imagination. Do not allow yourself to get caught in the trap of limiting what you are capable of having or achieving based on what your present conditions such as finances or education are. To base what can be on what is, is nothing more than non-sense.

Once you have your list you pay attention in each and every moment to the inner guidance coming from your inspirational joyful heart to follow the direct path to realizing all of the items you have jotted down, plus some you might not even be aware of yet!

When you give your inner voice, spoken from your heart, your undivided attention without any interference from the rational mind, you will notice you have a thought and if that thought also makes you smile or has a fuzzy warm feeling or you sense a great deal of enthusiasm; that is the direction to go in. If any or all of those things are lacking than it would be advisable to not move forward with an unhealthy obsession to have it anyway. This is your heart speaking to you through your emotions to allow you to become aware of what if right for you and what is not.

You do not need to hesitate to seek anyone else’s advice or opinion, as others are not your authority and do not know what feels right or wrong for you.

Please note, following your heart by doing what feels good for you does not give you license to inflict harm on others. When I am speaking of doing what feels right, that right is based on a healthy mental and emotional aspect that has a high regard for life and all others, fully knowing that each of us is a child of God and are to be treated with love, honor and respect. Following your heart does not permit you to impose your will upon another person, place, animal or thing.

Following the direction of your heart by only engaging your thoughts, words, actions and deeds in that of which feels good to you in any given moment, brings about the much desired trust in self and peace of mind that permits you to leap into the adventure of life in any given moment.

As you practice following your heart you will never force yourself to do anything even if that something once felt good in a past moment and in the present it does not. We continually shift and change and what may have been right for us in the past, may no longer serve our happiness in the present or the future.

Be sure to follow the present feeling, as one moment you will feel very inspired to take action and absolutely be in joy with it. A few hours later you may not feel like doing it (whatever it is) and thusly if you force yourself out of a sense of obligation, it becomes work rather than play and obviously is no longer joyful or right for you in that moment.

Many of you have words confused, like responsibility and obligation. Most people will claim they are acting responsibly when they are really perceiving obligation.

Responsibility is the ability to respond to self with love, whatever self is feeling in any given moment and the moment changes constantly. Sometimes you may feel happy, sometimes sad, sometimes angry, sometimes tired; whatever the feeling honor it and be with it. The uncomfortable feelings pass quickly with loving acknowledgment of them. They are free to move on because they have been heard and felt. If you deny their voice, you only suppress them within and then they rot and stagnates you from moving back into joy, love and happiness.

Obligation is more liken to doing something you perceive is expected of you and you may not really feel like doing it. Yet you do because you fear the loss of something; i.e. loss of money, loss of love, loss of whatever, it matters not because it is nothing more than fear.

Out of obligation we perform a task that is not joyful for us and we end up exhausted, angry and resentful, especially when we don’t get some kind of thank you or acknowledgment in return. This is not loving for self or for anyone else either. Obligatory word, thoughts, actions or deeds will never lead to your happiness; they enable unhealthy behavior rather than support your well-being and happiness.

It is time for you to stop doing obliging things for others, as you have already found that one moment you may feel some sense of self worth, and the next you will feel victimized and valueless. Obligation will always end up with you doing more for others than you do for yourself leaving you with no time, money or other forms of energy available for you.

It is time to be responsible by responding to the heart of you with the love and light of your divine magnificence.

When you take care of yourself lovingly, all else is taken care of by the higher mind and unconditionally loving heart of the universe. That’s where the statement “God helps those who help themselves”, originates. The heart, soul and spirit of you already know this.

The heart, soul and spirit of you know they reside in an abundantly prosperous universe, where the combination of them is the physical expression of the precious child of the Father – God and the Mother Goddess. Who by the way, has also been gifted free will and free choice. That means you get to have anything you can dream about.

It is the lower mental mind, the ego of you who resists allowing the freedom of self expression because it fears the outcome will be adverse. If your ego has been impeding your path to follow your heart to what  feels good for you and makes you happy, it is may be because you fear some kind of loss. Usually it means you are more in fear of your magnificence and your freedom to express it, than you are of loss of anything else. You think your heart will recklessly lead you astray.

You can change by facing your ego fear, and being willing to see beyond the eyes of deception so you can view the real you that is unlimited light and love.

Marianne Williamson coined the phrase, “We do not fear our darkness, we fear our Light!”

It seems beyond belief that anyone of us could fear our darkness when so many of us have lived so long within it? Yet if you do fear your light, you will remain mentally, emotionally and possible physically imprisoned in your darkness. Up to this point your self-imposed darkness, although presently becoming more and more uncomfortable and unsustainable, is what you have habitually come to know and practice.

When you fear your light and dwell in darkness you are doing nothing more than insisting on living in a hell of obligation and or victimization by others. You continually project blame or responsibility onto others for what has happened to you or for not having the courage to follow your heart.

You fear who you truly are and hide behind others, holding them accountable for what you are afraid of accomplishing. You live in the viscous cycle of incorrectly perceiving you are obligated to and as a result blame partners, children, parents and many others for holding you back or not supporting you in some manner or another; rather than owning the responsibility of how you hold yourself back when you choose to live in the lower ego levels of the state of fear.

As stated above you may be confused because you lack the understanding of the true meaning of the words responsibility and obligation. Most people will claim while attending to every one else’s needs, they are being responsible, when they are really fearfully engaged in obligation.

It is time to be responsible by responding to the heart of self with the love and light of your divine magnificence, rather than continue to simply survive.

We all have engaged in a mundane ego based survival rather than to follow our souls intentions and hearts desires on the adventurous journey of life. We remain in darkness because we fear not the lack and misery of our self imposed known hells, we fear the perceived unknown of the abundant magnificence of our light and the expression of it in heaven on earth.

The light is not unknown to you, as it is whom you are. You are not a human attempting to obtain spirituality. You are a bright thriving spirit realizing you are such through the experience of incarnation. This experience is for no other reason than for you to remember who you are by mastering the illusions of the physical world of density . You have forgotten your loving light because you have lived in the darkness of illusion for so long.

Each of you have lived many life fold experiences and it matters not if you believe in reincarnation, you can do more than enough damage to self in one life time alone. Most of your lives or life have been spent piling one layer of lower vibration conditioned beliefs atop another, where you continue the unhealthy ego serving behavior of oppressing your heart in fear of getting hurt.

You remain a victim because you think this feels good to you and no one or thing has the power to take away what you wish to feel. This is why it is imperative to follow healthy feel goods rather than continuing to punish your self with abusive behavior that doesn't do anything more than temporarily satiate an insatiable ego who manipulates you into believing a feel bad is really a feel good. 

Continuing to feel bad, while rationalizing that it feels good, is nothing more than harming yourself and adds insult to your multiple injuries. It fuels your sadness rather than gaining you joy. Just ask any recovering alcoholic, drug or other addict, they will assure you that what they thought made them feel good was nothing more than a guise to the feel bads they were attempting to avoid. They hid in their dark worlds because they feared the light of truth.

Following your heart into your magnificent light, is the only way to achieve genuine happiness. It matters not if your life is short, as it is far better to live a responsible self-loving short life consisting of a few months, weeks, days or even a few hours in blissfully loving freedom of self expression, than it is to live to a ripe old age in a prison of mental and emotional slavery of the victimization of insisting on being right in feeling bad rather than following your heart to happiness.

It is now time to be free to follow your brave heart whose only intention is to have you live a joyous life. Disengage from being right or spinning your energy wheel in figuring out your next step to assure a certain outcome or guarantee.

If you wish for you, as well as your precious children or the children of the world, to have loving abundantly prosperous healthy lives, then stop habitually conditioning your self and them to live in victimization of training their minds in order to make a living at the expense of the expression of the very spirit of them by conditioning them to deny their heart’s freedom to express their soul’s knowingness.

Just because you once were and they may be still be small in form, does not make you or them lacking in wisdom. You and they are divinity as well! You and they belong to the love of self, not to the parents that have given them passage to birth upon the planet.

Remind yourself and live in the happiness of following your heart in what is right for you and then guide your children to fully embrace they are a child of God as well, and that yes you may have participated in giving them life, yet that does not license you to live their life because you are in fear of living yourself.

Fortify and strengthen yours and their all knowing souls and magnificence by empowering their spirits. Be the example and show them how to live in the conscious healthy manner of following their hearts, rather than pass on the infliction that was passed on to you, of limited mental incorrect beliefs by imposing your fears upon them.

We all fear following our hearts. We are afraid we will make a mistake, scared to death of choosing incorrectly. The beauty of it all is whatever you choose you are fully empowered and have the authority to change if and when you determine it doesn’t really make you happy. You need not ignore your exciting inspiration any longer because you have that other voice in your head that warns of caution and steals your dreams.

We all suffer from the fearfully conditioned statements like:

”Watch out, beware, stay safe, don’t run, don’t climb, don’t experience, train your brain, don’t cry, wipe your tears, grow up, don’t be angry, especially don’t express your anger to me, don’t risk your heart, don’t trust…don’t live…just survive, sit in the house in front of the television where you can engage in more fear and continue to be a victim or where you can play video games that teach you how to have no heart or soul by engaging in activities that enables you to have power over others by engaging war and taking their lives so you can feel important through the illusion of killing, maiming, stealing etc…do this and whatever else I demand of you and whatever else it takes even at the expense of your heart and soul …because I am too fearful of not surviving or not having enough money, love, etc and can’t spend time to be present with you where you can see that you have value and where I can guide and mentor you in a healthy manner!”

Is it any wonder that you, as well as the children of the world may have grown into adults that can’t think, feel and do for themselves? This is why many children remain dependant upon their parents for everything they need want and desire. And why you remain dependent upon the advice and or opinions of others, especially what they may or may not be thinking about you.

Is it any wonder why so many in this world seem to lack compassion and understanding for self and others? How can they be any different, as they were most likely coerced and manipulated into making the lower mental ego mind more important then the very feeling sense of the soul self within their heart. They have been taught to survive in fear rather than live in love and happiness.

They have been unconsciously taught survival at any expense, including taking the means for life and the very life of others. They do so because they were denied their hearts by those who went before them that also were conditioned in the same manner.

Remember that misery loves company and that you may be unconsciously guiding those that follow into joining you in hell rather than encouraging them to be free to follow their hearts where they can and will realize heaven on earth!

We all have done it, because it was passed down from generation to generation. You need not be this unhealthy influence upon them or your self any longer. You can choose right here and right now that the buck stops here. You awaken to the fullest expression of the soul of you by allowing your courageous spirit to follow the guidance within your heart.

You do so first for self and thusly you can mentor and guide your children as well as others you care for into this higher state of consciousness, one of love that will ensure their health and well being because they are following their hearts to living in the present moment where they value the gift of their life and know their divine magnificence.

If you currently are one of these individuals who is afraid to follow your heart because you are living in a the darkness of conditioned fearful survival, you are now primed to reach for the light through a journey on the adventure of life lived from the heart and soul expressing through the Spirit of you.

Your heart will guide you on a journey where you can release and clear any painful issues and or final residue of past emotional or mental obstacles, that are also affecting your physical body. It will lovingly mentor you to trusting yourself so you may be your own authority in choosing what is right for you.

You can engage in the adventure of being in the moment of the journey, by being willing to be aware of what is right for you through the messenger of your emotions, this is equivalent to jump starting the battery of your life that has been lying dormant and rusted over from lack of use.

To delay embarking on this journey for even one more moment only ensures your imprisonment. To face your fear and step forward ensures a path where you consciously; meaning without pain or more harm to self and others, learn to trust your loving hearts guidance to lead you to awakening to a smiling face staring back at you from the mirror each morning.

You will emerge with something far more valuable than a lower earthly level Muggle license, certification or adoration or notoriety from others. You will be born into the magical world of which you always belonged. You will bring forth into full maturation the complete remembrance of the wisdom of self, coupled with the courage to be in integrity with self no matter where, no matter whom…and no matter what!

You will be free from limiting thoughts or stagnating emotions; this is the highest level of license in existence. It is the license to be you to enjoy the fun loving adventurous, thriving Spirit you already are.

In being the highest truth of you, you can only do good, as you know what is right or wrong for you  may not be the same for another.

You can then plant the seeds of awakening awareness in others, yet you know you cannot force them to grow. You can be an adept guide, mentor or facilitator at showing others the way to their joyful hearts and full expression of whom they are because you became the role model by traveling and continuing to stay the path of the loving heart.

In each and every moment you will be rid of self-doubt that keeps you from making decisions and then choosing your choice. You will be clear on what brings you joy in that present time and you will move forward with confidence in how to use your higher wisdom through your specific gifts and how to apply those divine gifts to empower others to do the same.

You will emerge from victim to victorious because you have applied your greater strength and courage to step beyond your mental and emotional unhealthy conditioning, into the fully empowered being of light that you are.

On your travels you carry  your bag of practical magical tools to continuously apply to maintain your empowerment, especially  in those moments the ego attempts to trap you into revisiting and reinvesting in the old damaging conditioned behavior and self-doubting thoughts.

The light of you is calling to you to follow your heart to the ascending steps of your divinity, not only for your health, well being and happiness, but for the health and well being of all others following in your footsteps.

NOW is the time to journey into the adventure of the truth of the soul of you through the very heart of you, to be free to express the courageous spirit of the true identity of you.

You will be loved and supported through the entire journey, as you love and support yourself in choosing your liberating pathway of following your heart. Your heart will lead you to the acknowledgement of your divine magnificence and then you can’t help but express the bliss of you through the very Spirit of the loving light you are!

With your heart in the lead your Spirit can soar, as you finally manifest all you have up to this point only dreamed about. I assure you following your heart will put a smile on your face and sustain your happiness forever!

Be the light reflecting the magnificent divinity you are and go ahead, take a risk and follow your heart!